I wish it wasn’t true, but Kelendria Trene Rowland epitomizes a doormat and a lackey. Kelly has made a career out of being a sidekick. Before I go any further let me say some positive things. Kelly Rowland is smart, beautiful, and talented. She’s also an insecure woman looking for validation whose afraid of her greatness. I am not a hater, I say these things out of love. I have been following her career from the beginning. I’ve watched every performance, read and watched every interview, and listened to every record.
Kelly Rowland thinks that she needs Beyonce. She’s always at her best vocally, and performance wise when she’s next to her sister. Even today she still seems to fall into place when around Beyonce, as if she’s the peasant girl. Kelly Rowland doesn’t see Kelly Rowland as amazing, she’s at her best when next to Beyonce because she believes more in the DC brand more than herself. The accomplishments of DC provide Kelly with an ego boost that can be seen and heard from her on stage. Kelly the solo artist lacks the assurance that Kelly of DC3 has.
Watch any interview with Kelly Rowland pre 2010 and notice how giddy Kelly gets when there’s an opportunity to praise and worship Beyonce. She’s also ran to her defense in several interviews as well. Kelly’s never been that passionate about herself. Let’s not forget how Kelly revealed that she was playing all her tracks for Beyonce looking for her approval. *sighs*
Kelly Stanning Out
Growing up in the Knowles household definitely played a role in this inferiority complex. She’s learned to accept playing 2nd fiddle. Kelly saw herself as blessed to be living in the home of her friend who was the ideal. Kelly had a single mother with financial issues and daddy issues, while Beyonce was a princess growing up in a privileged two parent home. Because Kelly saw Beyonce as an amazing entity she had validation, therefore when anyone tries to come at Beyonce, Kelly becomes defensive because you’re insinuating her validator is flawed. By saying her validator is flawed you’re also insinuating that she may have a bad judge of character when it comes to kelly, and since Beyonce is her source of validation, Kelly sees that as unacceptable. I know that might seem confusing but it’s a sick psychological issue going on. Kelly sees Beyonce as her God.
Tagging Along
Kelly has struggled with coming out of her shadow so she’s attempted to befriend other women that she doesn’t see as a threat like Serena Williams, Brandy, and now LaLa.
Kelly tries to steer clear of being a sidekick, but in all of these situations she’s put their by the media. Honestly, she’s improved a lot recently, now she might be looking for a man to give her validation. it’s become quite exhausting watching this. I’m tired of writing about this. It’s sad. My advice to Kelly is seek counseling, and realize that she should determine her own self-worth.